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Calm & In Control
The monthly toolkit for calmer days, kids who listen, and fewer meltdowns!
Gorg, motherhood isn’t exactly easy.
Repeating yourself 7 times when they don't listen, tantrums in the middle of Kmart, behaviours that won't stop no matter what the consequence is - it can feel like nothing is working & you’re always one moment away from losing it...
But here’s the good news - your kids will actually cooperate & you'll feel less exhausted when you have communication methods that actually work, a supported nervous system, & tailored expert guidance.
If you're ready to:
❤️🔥 Have kids that actually cooperate & stop repeating yourself
🙌🏽 Shift tricky behaviours & have fewer daily meltdowns
✨ Feel deeply proud of how your parenting, daily - cya, mum-guilt!
🤎 Raise your voice less, and be 'that' calm, connected Mum.
This monthly membership will make this your reality.
Feel calm & in control with methods that work:
The Program
Mini video & audio modules (self-paced, under 15 mins) + monthly live Q&A coaching calls (via Zoom)
In Calm & In Control, we dive into the 'Calmer Parenting Method': communication methods, simple strategies & live problem solving that helps you get your kids to listen, change challenging behaviours & experience fewer meltdowns.
Module One: Have Kids that Listen
Handle the carseat battles, tooth brushing, getting dressed & turning the TV off with less battles, defiance and repeating yourself.
Module Two: Handle Meltdowns with Calm & Confidence
Know exactly what to do when your child is losing their sh*t over the way you cut their toast, they're hitting & throwing things, and you're about to cry alongside them.
Module Three: Stress-Free Public Outings & Less Sibling Bickering
That trip to the supermarket will be a breeze when you've got tools that keep your kids focused, safe & (weirdly) chill when you say no. Your kids constantly bickering/hurting each other? Learn some tools to create harmony & connection between them.
Module Four: Changing Challenging Behaviours
Understand why your kids hit, throw, bite & whinge, and know exactly what to say & do to stop it becoming a recurring behaviour that drives you mad (& no, I won't just tell you to say 'gentle hands' or 'it's to okay to..', because that doesn't work).
Module Five: Mum-Guilt, Parenting Triggers & Repair
Stop spiralling at 11pm, being hard on yourself for the moment you yelled, that you weren't 'present enough' or that you took that hour to do something for you. I'll show you how to quieten mum-guilt, understand why certain moments make you rage more than others & repair in a way that keeps strong, secure connection with your kids.
Monthly Q&A Coaching Call:
Jump on LIVE, ask questions, listen to the reality of other mums who are 'in it' with you & implement your learnings in a way that works for your unique family. These calls are not recorded, but if you're unable to join live, you can ask your questions in the portal.
Community Chat:
An online portal to ask questions, share wins/breakthroughs and receive extra tidbits in the daily life moments. AKA you'll have practical support, a community of Mums in it with you & a parenting expert in your back pocket.
Minimise defiance, meltdowns & big behaviours
A little about me...
I'm Isabella, a Bachelor Qualified Early Childhood Educator with 12+ years trialling these exact methods with hundreds of kids and families.
I've tested these tools through big meltdowns, flat-out refusal, and plenty of my own dysregulated days along the way: so I only teach what's been tweaked & found to work.
Over 50 mums have used my methods to get their kids to cooperate, handle big behaviours & meltdowns with more calm.
What mums love most about the group format:
This is for you if:
You're raising a 2-10 year old and..
~ You're repeating yourself 24/7 and feeling guilty about how much you're yelling "I'm failing them!".
~ Shoes, toothbrushing & the car seat have become daily battles, and you're exhausted by the fight.
~ Meltdowns & behaviours have left you feeling lost, you flounder for what to say/do & feel like nothing works consistently.
~ You want to raise confident, thriving kids & feel proud of how you're parenting more often than not.
~ You're willing & ready to change your approach, so that daily life can be calmer & more cooperative.
I know what you're thinking..
"I don't have time for another thing"
Calm & In Control is built for real mums with little spare time ~ self-paced modules & expert support that fits into your actual day. Press play whilst you're folding laundry or on the way to school pickup: modules are 15mins or less, because these tools are made to be put into practice.
"I've tried things before & nothing works/my child is so strong-willed"
I hear you, this can feel so defeating & exhausting. Most of the time it isn't that you don't 'know' the tools, it's that you're not implementing them in a way that works for your unique kids, or you haven't been consistent enough to see real change. This is what I support you with in this program, so you can start to experience less defiance, meltdowns & behaviour in real life.
"I can't justify spending money on this"
A regulated, resourced mum changes the entire nervous system of her home. When you feel calmer, your kids feel calmer. This isn't a luxury spend: it's the most practical investment you can make for your whole family. Your kids will thank you later
"How long do I need to be a member to have success with the methods?"
Every family is unique, however I recommend minimum 3 months to create real, lasting change. The methods you learn are simple, but require consistency & workshopping to actually have kids that listen, fewer meltdowns & you feeling calmer. New modules are also added every few months, tailored to what you're craving more support with.
Ready to have calmer, more cooperative days with your kids?
Investment:
USD $169/month (cancel anytime). Afterpay available.
Self-paced modules & daily support
Live Q&A for tailored support
A Qualified parenting expert on your team